If You Want Kids to Soar, Ground Helicopter Parenting!

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Hello Community Family,

My only daughter has flown the coop! Last week she made the big move to Seattle, Washington to begin her life as an adult. Those of you with older children probably understand what I'm feeling right now    - a mix of excitement, sadness, pride, fear . . .    

But, I've been thinking a lot about it over the last few weeks, and I'm realizing that this whole parenting thing is by nature's design. I've made mistakes, of course, and am grateful that none have been detrimental. But as a parent, and as a teacher, I think the best thing I've done for my daughter and students has been to facilitate their growth and development, rather than control them. Children need space to grow and develop. Parents and teachers who carefully control every aspect of their child's life by making decisions for them, navigating their relationships, fighting their battles, and shielding them from disappointment and failure, are doing a huge disservice that both parent and child will regret and resent. I came across this article the other day that explains it all very well. The title is If You Want Kids to Soar, Ground Helicopter Parenting. Check it out for yourself or recommend to a friend. It's a short, but interesting read.

HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH

Hispanic Heritage Month is officially observed in the United States from September 15- October 15. This observance allows us to focus on the histories, cultures, and contributions made by Americans whose ancestors hail from Spain, Mexico, Central America, South America, and the Caribbean. Each year, it is our tradition at CMCS to celebrate with food fairs, musical concerts, and student presentations. 

Mark your calendars now for fourth grade student presentations on October 5th and second grade student presentations on October 12th during Monday Morning Messages. I know the students will be excited to share what they have been preparing. 


PROSPECTIVE PARENT TOUR

The first of three Prospective Parent Virtual Tours will be Tuesday, September 22 at 4:00 p.m. 

Please spread the word to your friends and other families that Community is the Best little school in the West! 


DINE & DONATE THIS WEEK!

Thursday, 9/24 @ Culver City & Larchmont 

Friday, 9/25 @ Sherman Oaks 

          Looking for an easy way to DINE and DONATE?            

Join the Community Family for dinner this week at the Burger Lounge!


IMPORTANT SEPTEMBER DATES

September 25 @ 2:30 P.M. - Tea Time with Toni  

https://lausd.zoom.us/j/85601860446?pwd=c0RFa0g3dTdOdkliSzBFMW1WMFp4QT09                                  Meeting ID: 856 0186 0446         Passcode: 152316                                      

This month, I will be introducing the various apps and platforms CMCS teachers and students are utilizing during distance learning. In order to maximize discussion and interaction, Tea Time will be limited to 300 participants. However, a recording of each Tea Time will be posted on communitymagnet.org. 

Click here to submit your suggestions and ideas for Tea Time topics and parent workshop trainings for the year.

September 29 @ 2:30 p.m. - Community Council Meeting                       This will be our first Community Council Meeting of 2020-2021. Council members will select offices, committees, and meeting dates for the year.

September 29- October 9 - Six-Week Invitational Parent Conferences        The six-week invitational parent conferences will be held during teacher office hours, which vary by grade level. These conferences are mandatory for all kindergarten parents. Parents with students in Grades 1-5 will be invited to conference with the teacher if the student is on track to receive a grade of 1 or 2 on the first trimester report card or if there is a concern about behavior, attendance, or other issue.

There are no new updates on Maria or Martha at this time.

Enjoy the wonderful week ahead!

Best,

Toni

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